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The Calm Parent Roadmap

The whole parenting journey in 8 stages: what each stage needs, what to skip, and the words to say.

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parentif · free guideThe Calm Parent Roadmap8 stages · 1 calm method
  1. Before baby
  2. 0–3 months
  3. 3–12 months
  4. Ages 1–3
  5. Ages 3–5
  6. Ages 6–12
  7. Ages 13–18
  8. 18 and beyond
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Find your child’s stage

Skim the stage you’re in now, then glance at what’s coming next.

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Each stage has a short checklist. Choose one line and try it for seven days.

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What’s inside

One calm page for each of the 8 stages

Plus a 3-step “how to use this” page and the one method that runs through every age.

1Before babyThe partnership comes firstMoney, the load at home, shared values and how you repair after a fight.
20–3 monthsSurvive the fourth trimesterFeeding, sleep, recovery and saying yes to help.
33–12 monthsThe first year settlesResponsive care, wake windows, babyproofing and first solids.
4Ages 1–3The loud, wonderful toddler yearsA 4-step calm response for tantrums.
5Ages 3–5Big feelings, small humansFive moves to coach a preschooler through emotions.
6Ages 6–12Build a capable kidIndependence, chores, safe failure and free play.
7Ages 13–18Stay close while they pull awayConnection, privacy and the few limits that matter.
818 and beyondFrom parent to trusted adultRespect, asked-for help and repair.
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The full guides for your child’s age

The roadmap gives you the overview. Each stage bundle gives you 5 calm guides with scripts, checklists and printables for that exact age.

The First Year bundle
0–12 monthsThe First YearNewborn days, feeding, sleep, milestones and recovery.$27 · See inside →
 The Toddler Years bundle
Ages 1–3The Toddler YearsTantrums, sleep, potty training and picky eating.$27 · See inside →
 The Preschool Years bundle
Ages 3–5The Preschool YearsBig emotions, bedtime, screens and school readiness.$27 · See inside →
 The School-Age Years bundle
Ages 6–12The School-Age YearsFriendships, homework, screens and sibling conflict.$27 · See inside →
 The Teen Years bundle
Ages 13–18The Teen YearsTalking, limits, stress, friends and independence.$27 · See inside →

More than one child, more than one stage?

The Complete Stage Pass has all 5 stage bundles plus The No-Fight Bedtime, The No-Fight Table and The Parent Scripts Deck.

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